There are 3 common pitfalls that effect your stepchild’s behavior: 1) assumptions about what behavior you’re seeing 2) communication patterns 3) the fact that the brain loves to be on autopilot.
All behavior is communication. Your response to your stepchild’s behavior has a huge impact on their behavior.
Your stepchild has an inherent loyalty conflict when it comes to having a relationship with you as their stepparent.
How to have difficult conversations with members of your blended family as a stepparent.
How to get your blended family on the same page about traditions that feel good and align with your values.
Just like when I was new to America, it would take me time to build a history of shared experiences with my blended family members.